tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post7147599020568071864..comments2023-04-26T05:30:28.016-04:00Comments on Days in the life....: Feeling kinda low...Deck Apehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16867471530082938833noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-35928679058441968562009-03-28T18:49:00.000-04:002009-03-28T18:49:00.000-04:00Mr. Johnson, I'm sorry for you and your family. I ...Mr. Johnson, I'm sorry for you and your family. I was in Justin's 4th grade class with Mrs. Grant and Mrs.Miller. My friend told me on the phone that Cody died and I was heart broken. I cried in my bed for hours. I know how it feels to have a family member die. Justin was a good friend to me. And how he sad makes me feel sad too. Tall Justin that Megan T. said Hi and be strong. Tell me what he says.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-56332773099628446782009-03-28T09:55:00.000-04:002009-03-28T09:55:00.000-04:00I don't really know what to say, except that I wil...I don't really know what to say, except that I will be praying for you, and that Cody will always be with you, and someday, you will be together again.Alishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00774816386867888752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-5043439799646296882009-03-27T20:41:00.000-04:002009-03-27T20:41:00.000-04:00I don't really know what to say other then I am so...I don't really know what to say other then I am so very sorry. Thank you for sharing Cody with us all.Sapphirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05066310248316349249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-28625414981344812752009-03-27T19:31:00.000-04:002009-03-27T19:31:00.000-04:00Love the tat...I was walking the pups earlier and ...Love the tat...I was walking the pups earlier and a little boy ran up to daffy and it was all I could do not to lose it in front of him. Needless to say the rest of walk was peaceful and full of thoughts... Thinking of you in WV...<BR/>CherylAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-34474559599428045802009-03-27T15:46:00.000-04:002009-03-27T15:46:00.000-04:00Mickey I think you are going to find yourself reme...Mickey I think you are going to find yourself remembering a lot of "Cody" moments in the days, months, and years to come and I think that is great. Cody had a way about him, my favorite memory of him was his 3rd birthday when he hopped right on his little "Harley" and just started zipping around the yard. I hope you all continue to talk about him and relive your favorite memories with each other. I also hope that missing Cody brings you, Diane, Justin and Daniella closer together as you all need each other now more than ever to help each other moving forward.<BR/>Stay strong!<BR/><BR/>Dan<BR/>ACCAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-32108341424293895722009-03-27T10:40:00.000-04:002009-03-27T10:40:00.000-04:00You and your family are in my prayers.You and your family are in my prayers.Kristiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08362329347967799260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-70864309048746204852009-03-27T06:41:00.000-04:002009-03-27T06:41:00.000-04:00Or http://miniurl.com/8958Or http://miniurl.com/8958Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-22389515239069672882009-03-27T06:37:00.000-04:002009-03-27T06:37:00.000-04:00http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=...http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=eng&cid=8074426Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-32228417266662560002009-03-27T05:23:00.000-04:002009-03-27T05:23:00.000-04:00I have been following your blog for some time now,...I have been following your blog for some time now, and being a mother myself, I wish to send you thousands of warm hugs and loads of love to help you heal. I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling. God bless, Lorette, South AfricaLorettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09530000819705466864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-37796790245985850622009-03-26T14:03:00.000-04:002009-03-26T14:03:00.000-04:00Mickey, just focus on what’s important now — not w...Mickey, just focus on what’s important now — not what’s important tomorrow or what was important yesterday. A great saying is “Today’s accomplishments were yesterday’s impossibilities.” I bet you thought on Sunday looking toward Monday and going back to work would be overwhelming - but it wasn’t - it was a good day. <BR/><BR/>You ended that “good” day with happy thoughts of Cody - remembering how he would walk up the hill - I bet you could almost see him going toward the house. Mickey, never be afraid to sit awhile and think. Enjoy your Cody moments - he’s right there in your minds-eye for you to remember him by.<BR/><BR/>Maybe the next time Justin is playing a “Cody” game you could mention to him that you remember how much Cody loved playing the games with him. Maybe you could offer to play a short game with him. <BR/><BR/>It is so easy to get focused on the child that died that we “forget” our living children. They need to be made part of the grieving process; they need to know it is okay to say Cody’s name, that it is okay to say, “I really miss Cody today.” They need to know that Mommy and Daddy still love them and want to hug them.<BR/><BR/>Stay strong - this grief stuff is a very, very hard and long journey!<BR/><BR/>Hugs, Pat (ACCA-NCC)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-45235973538560676192009-03-26T05:39:00.000-04:002009-03-26T05:39:00.000-04:00Mickey-I can only understand so much- as I have no...Mickey-<BR/><BR/>I can only understand so much- as I have not lost a child. But- Yes- Cody is out there- and your comment that you were hoping he would talk back to you- I've so often thought that about my dad since he passed almsot two years ago. I still cry sometimes waiting to hear dads voice- somtimes I do though not often. I've finally realized that he is there all the time- even if I don't always hear his voice. I can't believe anything else. <BR/><BR/>Cody is still with you. He is there- listen carefully and you will hear him. He is trying to comfort all of you. He wants you to be happy. He wants you to continue fighting for what he fought for. He will always be with you. Take comfort in the wonderful memories you have of him- but also in the meaning of his life. Take comfort in knowing how much he has touched so many, many lives- and how much he will continue for many years to touch so many lives. You can take great pride in knowing what Cody has done for so many in such a short time. Cody has done more than most of us will ever do.<BR/><BR/>My heart breaks for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Diane, and your kids. And my thoughts and prayers are with Cody.<BR/><BR/>DonnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-64465314328724056522009-03-25T17:03:00.000-04:002009-03-25T17:03:00.000-04:00We think about all of you every day, and Cody. We ...We think about all of you every day, and Cody. We wish you strength and thank you for sharing this with us.<BR/><BR/>Is it too late to still make a donation? If it would be easier we can wait for the website to come up, but we'd like to make a donation now and on-going.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-19517223678472165812009-03-25T12:50:00.000-04:002009-03-25T12:50:00.000-04:00We will continue to pray for you and your family d...We will continue to pray for you and your family daily. I can only imagine how much you must be missing Cody.Prayer Pals 4 Orphanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07429677100715573672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-47932044431915621122009-03-25T12:41:00.000-04:002009-03-25T12:41:00.000-04:00Little Cody left a strong legacy of love that will...Little Cody left a strong legacy of love that will keep him close to you for the rest of your days. Can you feel his lovely spirit flying free and glorious all around you? I hope so, and I hope it lifts you up. Because the loneliest phrase in our language has to be, "I miss you." You love him, and he loves you back with a feeling so powerful it can never ever be broken.wy-nothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07180643150571019948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-47578529926722684872009-03-25T10:24:00.000-04:002009-03-25T10:24:00.000-04:00Mickey, I think of you, Diane, Justin and Daniela ...Mickey, I think of you, Diane, Justin and Daniela every day. Thanks for still sharing Cody's memory with everyone through your blog. Sending you strength to make it through these difficult times and wishing peace for all of you. <BR/>Karen S. in AlexandriaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-23222209088968429262009-03-25T08:38:00.000-04:002009-03-25T08:38:00.000-04:00I am so sorry you hurt. I check back often to see...I am so sorry you hurt. I check back often to see how you are doing. I am sorry for the pain you feel. Allow yourself to feel everything that comes with this. Each day is different, some easy, some not so. I've suffered loss and nobody ever had the right words for me. Yet here I stand better than I was three years ago. It is truly a journey that you do not walk alone....however, we don't walk it with you because no-one could know what you feel no matter what they say. But, God walks this with you. Please talk to Him and cry with Him and listen to Him. I'm sad for you but faithful and trusting that He will have the rights words and bring the right people into your life at this time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-89845648665741632472009-03-24T18:44:00.000-04:002009-03-24T18:44:00.000-04:00I sit here in tears as I type this to you, Mickey....I sit here in tears as I type this to you, Mickey. I can only say that each day, the sun will rise. Each day will bring with it the ability to cope a little easier than the day before. I am praying for you, my friend! I wish I was at Progeny so I could tease you and have you pick up that piece of paper that was always in my way ;-)<BR/><BR/>God bless you!!! KateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-20679188905373146312009-03-24T17:03:00.000-04:002009-03-24T17:03:00.000-04:00Thinking of you and your family and praying that y...Thinking of you and your family and praying that you may feel God's comfort and peace as you endure this most horrible sorrow of sorrows. <BR/><BR/>Blessings to you and your family.waitingarmshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10822570764887037852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-57146250923174620322009-03-24T15:20:00.000-04:002009-03-24T15:20:00.000-04:00Bless you guys. We think about you lots. We were a...Bless you guys. We think about you lots. We were at the beach last week and I tried to message you on the hotel computer but wasn't sure you got it. The beach is Cody now to my family. My 9 year old wrote "Cody" in the sand every day. My 17 daughter took a photo which I (totally technologically challenged!) will try to send to you. Thank you for sharing with us.<BR/>We pray for you to have strengh. Love you. Know that Cody lives on in our hearts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-81076834729141349942009-03-24T12:09:00.000-04:002009-03-24T12:09:00.000-04:00Mickey, I'm far from home right now but Cody and f...Mickey, I'm far from home right now but Cody and family remain in my thoughts and prayers. Peace, strength, hope, love.<BR/>Tamara (Runlonger)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-85390210237944048072009-03-24T11:04:00.000-04:002009-03-24T11:04:00.000-04:00Mickey you will always have those moments. They a...Mickey you will always have those moments. They are hard but know that one day it won't be just an ache because you miss him. One day a moment like yesterday's will happen again and it will be a blend of longing for him but also great joy at having loved him and having been able to spent time with him. Cody will always be with you. The same for Diane, Justin and Daniela. Cody will always be with them in some way. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there!<BR/><BR/>Susan and JonathanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-53364702870376500492009-03-24T09:46:00.000-04:002009-03-24T09:46:00.000-04:00I cannot begin to understand what your family is g...I cannot begin to understand what your family is going through. But I pray for you all daily in hopes that God feels your hearts with peace as you work through this time of grief. <BR/><BR/>Also, the tattoo is GREAT.Super B's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10381834013048859013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-80053605225829066772009-03-24T09:42:00.000-04:002009-03-24T09:42:00.000-04:00To paraphrase an old song... You'll be seeing Cody...To paraphrase an old song... You'll be seeing Cody in all the old familiar places...<BR/>GB said it best...<BR/>Hang in there friend.<BR/>MonicaMonica Cassierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16762260713305976416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-16237264800382628732009-03-24T09:33:00.000-04:002009-03-24T09:33:00.000-04:00Mickey, Embrace those memories and cherish them. ...Mickey, Embrace those memories and cherish them. Rely on your faith and know that as difficult as it is for you here on earth, Cody is up in Heaven with the opportunity to spend time with our Lord and Savior!<BR/>God Bless,<BR/>BruceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1329317282548579894.post-69833721497655265622009-03-24T09:05:00.000-04:002009-03-24T09:05:00.000-04:00Oh yes, these are the moments. Reality can hit you...Oh yes, these are the moments. Reality can hit you hard in what should be pleasant moments, if only things were as they should be. <BR/><BR/>Your family remains in my thoughts and prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com